9 Things YOU can do starting TODAY to age in the comfort of home
Our vision at Legacy Senior Living is to transform the aging process through the comfort of home. We have found most people want to age in the comfort of their homes. As a family, it’s important that we support each other to navigate this process. If we don’t have a plan then we are taking the risk of higher care costs that can lead to significant health problems for you. Here are some sobering statistics from the CDC for family members who serve as a primary caregiver to a loved one: https://www.cdc.gov/aging/caregiving/caregiver-brief.html. Just like the flight attendants always instruct it’s important to have a plan to put on your oxygen mask so you can support your loved one through the aging process. Additionally, waiting too long for professional help can lead to higher care cost from either an unexpected fall or the requirement of 1 on 1 care because your loved one doesn’t understand their new environment. Here are 9 ideas that can help you craft a plan that is right for your family.
Each of the 9 ideas below is written with the intention to help you create a safe space. It’s important to foster an environment where conversations flow freely and without judgment. Gather your loved ones for an open dialogue, and set a time to share thoughts and concerns. Each of these concepts can require multiple conversations. Establishing trust is paramount and be thoughtful to include everyone so their wishes are valued and respected. Don’t hesitate to involve professional counselors if you need support. Please call us at (405) 438-3157 if you need a list of counselors we have worked with in Oklahoma City.
Express Concern and Interest: Start gently by expressing your genuine concern for your loved one’s well-being. Share your observations, emphasizing that you are here to support and understand their needs. This paves the way for deeper conversations regarding their preferences and aspirations.
Talk about Health and Future Care: Approach the topic of health and future care with empathy. Encourage your loved one to share their thoughts on health concerns, medical preferences, and possible scenarios. Discuss their wishes for potential caregiving arrangements, ensuring their voices guide the decisions.
Address Financial Matters: Delicately broach the subject of financial planning. Inquire about their wishes for estate planning, wills, and financial resources. Offer assistance in finding reputable professionals who can provide guidance on these matters. You are never to early to start thinking about transitioning your active income into wealth. If you are looking for resources to support this connect with a local professional or visit www.BMDInvest.com for more information.
Explore Living Arrangements: Engage in conversations about living arrangements as they age. Respectfully discuss options such as staying at home with modifications, moving to a retirement community, touring residential and other assisted living options, or seeking in-home caregiving support. Their comfort and preferences should guide the discussion.
Celebrate Memories and Legacy: Take time to celebrate the beautiful memories you've shared as a family. Encourage storytelling and reminiscing. This is an opportunity for your loved ones to share their life stories, values, and dreams, helping to create a lasting legacy.
Assess Activities of Daily Living: In a loving and non-intrusive manner, inquire about their abilities to handle daily tasks. Ask about their comfort levels with activities like cooking, bathing, and managing medications. This conversation can lead to exploring potential assistance or adjustments.
Discuss Emotional Well-being: Aging can bring emotional challenges. Engage in conversations about their emotional well-being, stressors, and coping strategies. Encourage open expression of feelings, and be ready to provide resources for mental health support if needed.
Plan for Enjoyment and Fulfillment: Highlight the importance of continuing to pursue passions and interests. Discuss activities your loved one enjoys and ways to stay engaged socially. Encourage them to set new goals and embark on fulfilling adventures.
Regular Check-ins: Keep the lines of communication open with regular check-ins. Show your unwavering support by consistently showing up, listening, and adjusting plans as needed.
These conversations may not always be easy, but they are essential. Just as we have navigated life's challenges with resilience, families must embrace this phase with the same unwavering determination. By engaging in heartfelt conversations, we pave the way for a future where our loved ones age with dignity, surrounded by the love and support they deserve. Give us a call if you ever need any resources along the way.
~ Katie